So you’ve been bitten by the japa bug. Maybe you’ve already got your visa, booked your flight, and said your long teary goodbyes. Or maybe you’re still weighing your options, wondering if life abroad is really all it’s hyped up to be.
We spoke to Nigerians who have made the move to different parts of the world — the UK, Canada, the US, and even Germany — and asked them, “What’s one thing you wish you knew before relocating?” Their answers were honest, insightful, and sometimes hilarious.
If you’re thinking of relocating, this one’s for you.
1. Winter is Not Just Cold — It’s a Whole Lifestyle
“I thought it was just cold weather. I didn’t know I’d have to learn how to layer clothes like a fashion puzzle.” – Tolu, Canada
It’s not enough to just buy a winter jacket. You need thermal underwear, boots with grip, gloves that actually keep your fingers alive, and something called “moisturizing routine” because your skin is about to experience shock. Winter changes everything — how you dress, commute, even how you socialize.
2. Loneliness Is Real
“I had friends and family around me all my life in Naija. I wasn’t ready for the isolation.” – Chidi, UK
Many people underestimate how much we rely on community in Nigeria — the neighbor who drops by uninvited, the spontaneous owambe, the gist at the barber shop. Abroad, you may find yourself spending long stretches alone, especially in the early months. Be intentional about building connections — it takes time, but it’s worth it.
3. Nobody Sends You
“Abroad, nobody is watching or caring about your every move. You’re your own hype man.” – Ada, Germany
You’ll soon realize that the pressure to look a certain way, act a certain way, or “impress people” fades when nobody knows or cares about you. It’s freeing, but it can also be disorienting. Be prepared to define success on your own terms.
4. The Hustle is Real — and Taxed
“I didn’t know the government would take a big bite out of every paycheck. I nearly cried after seeing my first salary slip.” – Kunle, USA
Taxes, bills, insurance, rent — by the time you’re done, you might start questioning if you’re truly earning anything. Financial literacy is key. Learn the system early, budget wisely, and don’t assume foreign currency equals wealth.
5. You Might Have to Start Over Professionally
“I was a senior manager in Lagos. Abroad, I started off as a cashier.” – Bimpe, UK
Your Nigerian degree or work experience might not immediately open doors. Be mentally prepared to start from scratch. It’s humbling, but not uncommon. Many rebuild — sometimes even switch careers — and eventually thrive.
